Your parent's phone is the number one way scammers reach them. Phone calls, text messages, emails, and even pop-up browser warnings — they all come through that one device.

The good news is that modern phones have built-in protections that most people never turn on. With about 20 minutes of setup, you can dramatically reduce the number of scam calls and messages your parent receives — and give them a quick way to check anything suspicious that does get through.

Here is the complete guide. Do this with your parent, not for them.

Step 1: Enable Built-In Call Blocking

On iPhone (iOS)

  • Go to Settings > Phone > Silence Unknown Callers and turn it on
  • This sends calls from numbers not in their contacts, recent calls, or Siri suggestions straight to voicemail
  • Legitimate callers will leave a voicemail. Scammers almost never do

On Android

  • Open the Phone app > Settings > Caller ID & spam
  • Turn on See caller and spam ID and Filter spam calls
  • On Samsung phones, also enable Smart Call in the same menu

This single step eliminates the majority of scam calls. Many seniors report their scam calls dropping by 80% or more after enabling this feature.

Step 2: Set Up Text Message Filtering

On iPhone

  • Go to Settings > Messages > Unknown & Spam
  • Turn on Filter Unknown Senders
  • Spam texts will now go to a separate "Junk" folder instead of appearing in the main inbox

On Android

  • Open Google Messages > Settings > Spam protection
  • Make sure it is turned on
  • Spam messages will be automatically identified and moved to a spam folder

This does not block all scam texts, but it catches the most obvious ones and keeps them out of your parent's main message inbox.

Step 3: Browser Safety Settings

Many scams happen through web browsing — fake pop-ups claiming the computer has a virus, phishing pages that look like bank login screens, and fraudulent shopping sites.

On iPhone (Safari)

  • Go to Settings > Safari
  • Turn on Fraudulent Website Warning
  • Turn on Block Pop-ups

On Android (Chrome)

  • Open Chrome, tap the three dots, go to Settings > Privacy and Security
  • Turn on Safe Browsing (choose "Enhanced protection" for maximum safety)
  • Go to Site Settings > Pop-ups and redirects and make sure they are blocked
Important If your parent ever sees a pop-up saying their phone has a virus and they need to call a number — that is always a scam. Real virus warnings never include a phone number. Close the browser immediately.

Step 4: Bookmark NoScamForMe

This is the most important step. Give your parent a one-tap way to check any suspicious message.

On iPhone

  1. Open Safari and go to noscamforme.com
  2. Tap the Share button (the square with the arrow)
  3. Scroll down and tap "Add to Home Screen"
  4. Name it "Scam Checker" and tap Add

On Android

  1. Open Chrome and go to noscamforme.com
  2. Tap the three dots in the upper right
  3. Tap "Add to Home screen"
  4. Name it "Scam Checker" and tap Add

Now your parent has an icon on their home screen that looks and feels like an app. One tap opens the scam checker. They can paste in any text, email, or message and get an instant answer.

Step 5: Add NoScamForMe to the Home Screen

Once NoScamForMe is on the home screen, move it to a prominent location — ideally the first page, near the bottom where their thumb naturally rests. The easier it is to reach, the more likely they are to use it.

Show them how it works. Open it together. Paste in a real suspicious text (or use one of the examples on the site). Let them see the result. Then say: "Anytime you get something weird, just tap this and paste the message in."

Step 6: Set Up Contact Sharing for Trusted Numbers

Make sure your parent has all important numbers saved in their contacts with clear names:

  • Their bank's official number (from the back of their card, not from any email)
  • Their doctor's office
  • Medicare (1-800-MEDICARE)
  • Social Security Administration (1-800-772-1213)
  • Your phone number and other family members

When they have call filtering turned on, calls from saved contacts will always ring through. And if they ever need to call their bank, they should use the number from their contacts — never a number from a text or email.

Step 7: Enable Two-Factor Authentication on Email

If your parent uses email, turning on two-factor authentication adds a critical layer of security. This means even if a scammer gets their password, they cannot access the account without also having the phone.

For Gmail, go to the Google Account settings and enable 2-Step Verification. For other email providers, search for "two-factor authentication" in the account security settings.

Use text message verification if available — it is the simplest option for people who are not comfortable with authenticator apps.

Do This Together Every step in this guide should be done sitting next to your parent, explaining what each setting does and why. Let them tap the buttons. If they understand what you set up, they are far less likely to turn it off later.

A Quick Checklist

Print this out or save it as a note for your next visit:

  • Silence unknown callers: On
  • Text message spam filter: On
  • Browser fraud warning: On
  • Pop-up blocker: On
  • NoScamForMe bookmarked on home screen: Done
  • Important contacts saved with clear names: Done
  • Two-factor authentication on email: On

Add NoScamForMe to Their Home Screen

The most important step takes 30 seconds. Bookmark NoScamForMe so your parent always has a scam checker one tap away.

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